A pastor was giving a sermon based on
today’s passage. He decided to try some
congregational participation.
So
he said to the folks sitting in the pews, “I’ll bet that many of us feel as if
we have enemies in our lives. So raise your hand if you have many
enemies.” Now, this congregation being a
very honest one, quite a few people raised their hands. The pastor smiled and continued.
“Now raise your
hand if you have only a few enemies.” And about half as many people raised
their hands.
“Now raise your
hand if you have only one or two enemies.” And even fewer people raised
their hands that time.
“See,” he says, “most of us feel like we have enemies. Now raise your hand if you have no enemies at all.”
“See,” he says, “most of us feel like we have enemies. Now raise your hand if you have no enemies at all.”
The pastor
looked around and finally, way in the back, an old man raised his hand. The
pastor acknowledged him. The gentleman
stood up and proudly announced to the pastor and the congregation, “I have no
enemies whatsoever!”
Needless-to-say,
the pastor was astonished and invited the man to the front of the church.
“What a
blessing!” the pastor said. “How old are you?
“I’m 98 years old,” he replied.
“I’m 98 years old,” he replied.
“And you have no enemies?” the pastor asked
once again.
“Nope,” the
elderly man said. “Not a single one.”
The pastor put his hand on the old parishioner’s shoulder and proclaimed, “What a wonderful Christian life you lead! Tell us how it is that you have no enemies.”
The old man looked him in the eye and replied, “I outlived them all!”
The pastor put his hand on the old parishioner’s shoulder and proclaimed, “What a wonderful Christian life you lead! Tell us how it is that you have no enemies.”
The old man looked him in the eye and replied, “I outlived them all!”
Friends and
enemies: That is what this passage we
just read seems to be all about. It is
yet another excerpt – and a difficult one too - from the Sermon on the
Mount. Jesus has been up on that
mountain preaching for quite some time now – four Sundays worth of verses, as
you well know if you have been in the church the past few weeks. And what he has to say to us this morning is
no Sunday School picnic.
We have come a
long way since we reflected on the Beatitudes (or Blessings) together. We have imagined ourselves as light and
salt. We have struggled with anger,
divorce, lying, and adultery. And today we are looking our enemies and those who seek to
bring us down – looking them square in the face and pondering what in heaven’s
name we are to do about them in light of the Gospel message and our calling as
Jesus’ 21st century disciples.
As one blogger
I read noted, “If you weren’t poor in spirit at the beginning of the Sermon on
the Mount, you are bound to be by the time you finish.” Jesus does not go easy
on us this morning.
“If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the
other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you
and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If
anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles.”
How are we to
make sense of those outlandish demands in our crazy, mixed up, dog-eat-dog
world? Even Jesus must have known that
you do not get ahead being a doormat and that Casper Milquetoast never had a
prayer of ending up as CEO. Is Jesus
trying to show us up as deficient, imperfect, well, OK, human? Let’s look more closely and see what he might
be up to.
Jesus begins by
tossing aside the so-called Law of the Tooth, words to live by in first century
Palestine. Gone are the days of “an eye for
an eye, and a tooth for a tooth” in the Kingdom about which he preached. You see, God’s dream for the world is not
founded on retribution.
Did you know
that this Law of the Tooth was originally meant to keep violent retaliation
from escalating? The logic was that, if
someone poked out your eye, then you had the right to poke out one of his eyes
– but no more. Likewise, if someone knocked out your tooth, then you were
entitled to knock out one of your assailant’s teeth – but just one, no
more. In other words the punishment was to perfectly fit the crime. Fair is fair, right?
But Jesus seems
to imply, “No. It is not a question of
fairness.” And he gives three examples
that really must have set his listeners back.
The first had to do with getting
slapped in the face: “If anyone slaps you on the right cheek….” Now, most scholars agree that Jesus was
talking about being slapped with the back of the hand – which was a gigantic
insult to even the lowest of the low.
A
slap on the cheek like that was tantamount to saying, “You are scum” – or as
the Irish would say – “The back of my hand to you.” Contrary to erroneous
interpretations, Jesus was not talking about a physical assault, like a punch
in the mouth. And he certainly was not telling his listeners to roll over and
play dead.
However, he does say that simply taking
the insult is not enough, “…turn to them the other cheek also.“
He seems to be imploring his audience to break the cycle of vengeance. Fairness is not the question – or the answer.
He is asking us to color outside the
lines, to go beyond what we know and are comfortable with, to offer more than
what we are required to offer.
The second example is this: “If anyone wants to sue you and take your
shirt…” Again, most
scholars agree that a shirt was one of two garments people wore, a cloak being
the other. In this example then, you
were literally being asked to relinquish the shirt off your back – even though
what you wore was all you owned.
But
then he goes on to say that doing so is not enough: “…hand
over your coat as well.” Jesus is telling
his audience that, in this example, they need to give up their other garment
too – and finish the day in their skivvies – or even less than that.
Like
the first example, he seems to be asking his audience to break the cycle of
reprisal. Fairness
is not the question – or the answer. Jesus is asking us to color outside the lines,
to go beyond what we know and are comfortable with, to offer more than what we
are required to offer.
Here
is the final example: “If anyone forces you to go one mile…” Again, most scholars agree that Roman
soldiers had the authority to demand anyone to carry their pack for a
mile. A soldier could pull you away from
your fishing vessel or shop or grab a kid playing stickball. Such a show of power!
But
Jesus admonishes his audience one again that that is not enough: “…go
with them two miles.” Once again, he
seems to be asking his audience to look beyond retribution. Fairness
is not the question – or the answer. He
is asking us to color outside the lines, to go beyond what we know and are
comfortable with, to offer more than what we are required to offer.
And
then, if tossing aside the cultural laws that defined first century Palestinian
relationships was not enough, Jesus sums up this part of his sermon by preaching
to not just love your neighbor, but love your enemy – not just put up with him
or her - as well –
the one who insults you with a slap, the one who
takes your shirt and leaves you half-naked and shamed, the one who bullies you
into dropping everything and being a personal slave.
Make
everyone your neighbor, Jesus says. Love
your enemies – don’t just put up with them – and even pray for them while you
are at it. It is not a question of
fairness. After all, this is God’s
way. This is part of God’s dream for the
world. This, in God’s eyes, will make
you complete – or, as many translations say - perfect.
That is certainly a difficult concept
to embrace in our competitive, winner-take-all world. I mean, really, if life is not based on fairness, then what is it based on?
Episcopal priest Michael Marsh tells a
story from his boyhood about going to a carnival with his parents and younger
sister. He writes: “The only thing I
remember about that day is the monkey on a stick. Mom and Dad bought us each a
little fuzzy monkey tied to a stick by piece of elastic. We carried them around
watching them bounce and swing. At some point we went back to the car and laid
them on the backseat floorboard and then went on about the day. When we came
back to the car my sister got in on my side. As she did she stepped on my
monkey and broke the stick. It was an accident. Nevertheless, it was broken.
(Marsh
continues.) I got in the car, reached
over, and stomped on her monkey. I broke it. Then my dad reached over the front
seat and slapped my leg. Contrary to Jesus’ admonition in today’s gospel, I did
not offer him the other leg to be slapped.
‘That’s
not fair,’ I yelled. It made no sense to me that she broke my monkey and I got
slapped. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a monkey for a monkey. Now
that made sense. That was fair.”
How
must we as followers of Jesus view our world, if not through the lens of
fairness? Surely the alternative is what
Jesus was getting at in these verses.
So
– I ask you: What if we were to see the
world instead through the lens of love without limits – as difficult as that
would be? What if we really embraced the
fact of the abundance of God’s love for us and shared this “overflow”
love? What if we made a commitment to go
beyond what we have to offer and worked instead to give more in the name
of that love? What would our lives and
the life of this church look like if we moved beyond fairness to trusting that
the more we give away, the more we will have?
What if changing lives lay at the root of all we did as a church? What if we colored outside the lines? What if
this command to love that permeates all of the Sermon on the Mount, what if
this command was a core value in our lives and in the life of our church? What
if we truly embraced William Sloane Coffin’s admonishment that an eye for an
eye will eventually leave the whole world blind?
Giving
up retaliation for reconciliation, retribution for pardon, vengeance for
forgiveness, fairness for love seems overwhelming and even un-embraceable.
And
yet, Jesus is inviting all the crowds who listen to him down through the ages
even to us to embrace a life that seems, in many ways, to be counter to who we
have become as human beings. As UCC pastor Mark Suriano writes, he is issuing “a
call to the highest and best within us, to raise our sights and join him in
creating a more compassionate world, and to create among us a true community of
respect based on self-giving.”
Oh,
the old ways will not just disappear.
They are still very much around us – poverty, war, fragmentation – but
we – you and I – have, through our baptism, declared ourselves to be Christians
and so have made a commitment to a new way of living based not on fairness but
on limitless love. And we cannot forget
that!
We
cannot singlehandedly end world hunger or disarm the entire world. But we can start small – in our own lives –
treating our families with compassion rather than sowing the seeds of revenge
or demanding that life be fair or always keeping score. We can color
outside the lines, go beyond what we know and are comfortable with, and offer
more than what we are required to offer.
We can start small - in the life of this
church – by supporting and expanding upon all that we do to change lives and
create and transform community. We can
start small and support this church’s mission work even if that means going
above and beyond our pledge, even if it means giving something when before we
have given nothing. We can color outside the lines, go beyond what we know and are
comfortable with, and offer more than what we are required to offer.
And
how will we know if we have succeeded?
As Lutheran pastor, Carla Works noted, “When anger results in
reconciliation rather than retaliation God must be at work. When enemies are
overcome by love rather than violence God’s reign is present."
Changing
the world is overwhelming. We cannot
make Democrats love Republicans. We
cannot make conservatives affirm progressives.
However, we can change our own lives as well as the life of this church. Let’s let that be where our focus lies this coming
week. It may not seem like much in the face of all the world’s craziness, but
it is a start.
I
know of an old wall – stones piled high by some ancient farmer and his
son. Each spring, in that wall, a single
flower grows and blooms – no soil, not much sun, just a crack in the
rocks.
Let’s
be like that flower this week – taking our time but always persisting – small
but important steps as we practice the faith that Jesus sets forth in these
verses we read –
trying out love instead of fairness and
compassion instead of retribution, trusting that we have it within us to begin to shatter the
old way of doing things (even on a small scale), or at least to open some
well-placed cracks in it, like that ancient wall, so that the new order Jesus
preached can begin to flourish.
It is as
Leonard Cohen wrote:
Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack, a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in
That's how the light gets in
That's how the light gets in
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack, a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in
That's how the light gets in
That's how the light gets in
Let’s
color outside the lines, go beyond
what we know and are comfortable with, and offer more than what we are required
to offer. After all, that is how the
light gets in. That is how God’s dream
will become a reality.