Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Matthew 11:16-19, 25-30 "Of Children's Games and Oxen Yokes"


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         “Mom….Mom…Mom!”
         “What?”
         “I’m bored!”
         Who among us has not heard a child somewhere, sometime, using the “B” word – and using it in that whiney voice that children have been perfecting since the very beginning of time?
         “Mom!  I’m bored.”
         It is summertime, and the livin’ is easy.  School is out, but not many days have passed before it begins.
         “Mom!  I’m bored!  There’s nothing to do.”
         “Why don’t you go outside and play?”
         “It’s too hot!”
         “Then sit by the fan and read a book.”  (PAUSE)
         “Mom!  I’m bored!”
         It is like those fickle boys and girls that Jesus was talking about, the ones trying to decide on a game as they sat around in an ancient Capernaum marketplace.  “We played the pipe for you, and you did not dance.  We sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.”
         However, in this passage that we just read, Jesus is really not talking about children in a marketplace unable to choose between pretending to be brides and grooms, pallbearers and gravediggers.  He is talking about his generation of fellow Jews, all of them awaiting a Messiah that was both big enough to save them from the imperial domination system of the Roman Empire that was crushing them economically and socially and yet small enough to neatly fit into a box that was understandable, manageable, and, above all, satisfying.
         And in these verses we just read, Jesus – in his usual blunt manner - accuses his listeners of not being content with anyone God might have sent to help them out of the predicament God understood them to be in.  God just could not seem to get it right – from their perspective, that is.
         First, there had been John the Baptist.  Now he was a real loser – running around like a mad man predicting in his fiery rhetoric the most dire doomsday imaginable:  The end is near!  The end is near!  Repent, or every single one of you will be swept up off the proverbial threshing floor and burned like the leftover chaff when the wheat is milled.
         And the outfit he wore?  A tunic made of rough camel hair?  Now that was really over the top.  I mean, come on, how comfortable can that be?  Besides, John did not even eat like a normal human being.  When he was not fasting, he was noshing on insects.  And I heard tell that he never once touched a drop of wine.  That John was way too stern and serious.
         Surely such an oddball freak – not to mention such a dour, down-in-the-dumps one – surely such an oddball freak could not be speaking the word of God to them.  After all, they were the chosen people.   “We sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.”
         And now there was this itinerant rabbi, Jesus.  He wore a normal dusty, dirty robe with a splattering of last night’s dinner speckling its front – no camel hair, at least.  And he did not do the locusts and wild honey diet either, but, really, the people he ate with?  Definitely the wrong sort:  you know, from the other side of the tracks - most of them being drunkards and gluttons. 
         And we all know that birds of a feather flock together.  Dour, down-in-the-dumps John may have been a teetotaler, but that Jesus?  Why, I heard tell that once he did not have enough wine to drink at a wedding, and so he made more – six big jugs of it - from purified water, no less.  Bet he had a headache the next morning after that little binge.
         And besides, Jesus laughs too much.  He smiles at and actually seems to enjoy little children.  And all he ever does is tell stories. He makes religion seem like a joyful thing.  
         Surely such an oddball freak – not to mention such a gentle and humble at heart one – surely such an oddball freak could not be speaking the word of God to them.  After all, they were the chosen people.  “We played the pipe for you, and you did not dance.”
         You cannot win for losing!  That is for sure.  “Nothing satisfies this generation,” Jesus declared.  “I mean,” he pointed out, “there just seem to be an awful lot of bystanders and critics sitting around calling out the shortcomings of anyone God might have sent and all the while awaiting a Messiah that meets their own narrow and downright silly expectations.”
         Open your eyes, O fickle generation!  Open your hearts to embrace God’s passion for the world!  Throw your narrow and downright silly expectations for the Messiah out the window, and see that Jesus – this laughing, humble, gentle, wide-eyed lover of life embodies God’s dream for us.  This man Jesus is all that God hopes we will someday be. 
         And if God’s dream for the world is to come true someday (and face it, we are a long way from that particular truth), then surely we will need to change our tune.  As Lutheran pastor, Joshua Villines, noted, “It means changing the way we see ourselves, it means changing the way we see other people, and it means changing the way we live our lives. That’s takes a lot of effort.”
          When it comes to change, you see, we all carry a lot of baggage.  When it comes to change, we are all burdened, and we are all heavy-laden. Just like the final verses in this passage point out.    These are verses that, at first reading, seem so disconnected from the image of children playing in the marketplace.  However, if we read them in their entirety and if we affirm that as Christians, as followers of Jesus, he challenges us to walk his way, to embody in our own lives the precious dream of God that he is, then these final verses are none other than the very foundation of our hope that – somehow, sometime - we will indeed usher in God’s reign of compassionate love along with that peace which passes all our understanding.
         There is a little known legend about Jesus in the years before his public ministry, those decades that our four Gospels – Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John - tell us nothing about. The legend claims that Jesus was not only a carpenter, but he was one of the master yoke-makers in the Nazareth area. People came from miles around for a yoke hand carved and crafted by Joseph’s talented son.
         When customers arrived with their team of oxen, Jesus would spend so much time measuring the team, their height, the width, the space between them, and the size of their shoulders. Within a week, the teamster would return with his beasts of burden, and Jesus would carefully place the newly made yoke over their shoulders, watching for rough places, smoothing out the edges, and fitting the yoke perfectly.
         It is a lovely legend, I think, because it directs us to the yoke Jesus invites us to take, the one he speaks of in our passage.  “For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. 
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
         However, do not be fooled or lulled into complacency by the word “easy” that so many Bible translations use.  You see, the root word in Greek refers to tailor-made yokes.  So – what Jesus is really saying is this:  “My yoke is well-fitting.”
         The yoke Jesus invites us to take, the yoke that brings rest to our weary souls, is one that is made exactly to our lives and hearts. The yoke he invites us to wear fits us well, neither does it rub us nor cause us to develop sore spirits.  Most of all, the yoke is designed for two. And our yoke-partner, of course, is none other than the Messiah himself.
         However, be aware that Jesus is not letting us off the hook when it comes to the heavy baggage and burdens we bear.  As Methodist pastor, Curtis Goforth notes, “Jesus is using the language of plowing here, of yoking two animals together so that they can get some work done. Notice Jesus doesn’t say to us, ‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. For my mattress is made of space-age foam and my pillow is soft and smells like lavender and eucalyptus.’ Jesus doesn’t promise anything about removing work from those who come to him. But he does promise rest to them.”
         Goforth goes on to say: “When Jesus says to ‘take my yoke upon you, and learn from me’ he is not simply telling us to listen to his words because there might be a pop quiz next week. A better way of translating the Greek here “learn from me” might be something to the effect of “be my apprentice” or even “be my yoke mate.” Jesus isn’t telling us to simply listen to his words but to learn from his actions and to work along side him—the same way an apprentice watches the master and learns how to do his craft. We are to watch the way Jesus operates so that we might see how to operate.”
         There will always be fields to plow.  There will always be Kingdom work to be done.  And there will always be times when the fields and the work seem endless, when our lives pull us in too many mindless or painful directions, when more than anything we just want to rest, put down our heavy loads.
         We all yoke ourselves to something, you know.  It may be to a job that is grinding us down bit by bit.  It may be to loans and credit cards that are burying us dollar by dollar.  It may be to a marriage that is falling apart day by day. It may be to an event in the past that we could not control then and the repercussions of which we cannot control now. 
         But whatever that yoke is for you, it dominates you and pulls you to places oh so dark and scary.  It carries with it a burden you cannot possibly carry.  And there is no yoke-mate.  You are alone.
         But the way of Jesus is different.  We are not shouldering the yoke by ourselves.  He is there, beside us, sharing the baggage we carry, not eliminating it, but simply sharing it, which, when you think about it, is really enough to manage the fear, the pain, the sorrow.  Take up his yoke and learn from him.  Learn of the power of prayer.  Learn of the need for friendship and companionship.  Learn of the fact that, as theologian Frederick Buechner wrote, “there can never really be any peace and joy for me until there is peace and joy finally for you too.”
         Open your eyes, O fickle generation!  Open your hearts to embrace God’s passion for the world!  Throw your narrow and downright silly expectations for the Messiah out the window, and see that Jesus – this laughing, humble, gentle, wide-eyed lover of life embodies God’s dream for us.  This man, Jesus, can be our yoke-mate and share our baggage and burdens. We can learn from him.  We should learn from him because he is all that God hopes that we will someday be ourselves – and be for one another.    
by Rev. Nancy Foran, Raymond Village Community Church U.C.C. 

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